popularity is it good or bad??
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i was thinking that day of popular people in college ... and it made me think what made them popluar ?? i was trying to link it with the high school movies which descriminate between the cool popular kids and the geeks =P .. but it doesn't work that way lool .. i figured we're all geeks and we're all together in this .. i discovered popular kids are the ones who have obvious characters .. like they have a sense of humor or they are the social kind who have connections and knows everyone.. or have their own distinguished style that made them special .. these people walk around and they know that everyone is looking at them and recognizing them .. they know they have the spotlights .. even all the doctors knows their name and their quality of work and their grades .. is this an advantage or disadvantage ??? when i think of it .. sometimes it occur to me what if i was one of these people .. i wouldn't really like it to be honest coz if you're not there or you thought of skipping a clinical session the doctors will notice and wonder where have you been .. if you're late they'll catch you coming in late =P .. if you wanna sleep in the lecture -> forget it , it's a really bad idea !!! .. coz they'll notice .. if you thought of doing anything someone will catch you and the words will spread about you ... so you should be cautious all the time coz people recognize you and they're watching you ...
on the other hand , being well known by the doctors can be useful , coz they would help out people they know more than the unknown people .. IF they like them of course .. you can contact them to know your mistakes or know your grades in a quiz for example .. get recommendation letters that could help you out in the future .. but when you think about it , eventually at the end of the year when they grade the exam papers they don't see the names ... and you're graded with what you have in the paper .. so everyone is treated equally and they're being fair with everyone wethere ur popular or not ..
so why do i want the spotlight??
on the other hand , being well known by the doctors can be useful , coz they would help out people they know more than the unknown people .. IF they like them of course .. you can contact them to know your mistakes or know your grades in a quiz for example .. get recommendation letters that could help you out in the future .. but when you think about it , eventually at the end of the year when they grade the exam papers they don't see the names ... and you're graded with what you have in the paper .. so everyone is treated equally and they're being fair with everyone wethere ur popular or not ..
so why do i want the spotlight??